Part One: Funeral director Don Byles. 65. Pg 60
Question: What kind of work do funeral houses do and what is required for them to become a mortician?
Throughout my reading in Callings I didn't know much about a funeral director and wanted to find out more about it. Since no one really talks about so I decided that I wanted to do some research on it. A funeral director is in charge of arranging burials and organizing funeral services where they work the family of the deceased. While the family is there planning out the funeral, the funeral director, will be a counselor or caregiver to help the family through this hard time. They are to be respectful and be their guide them through the process and fulfill their wishes. They also help move the body to the funeral home so that they could fill out the death certificate and continue to support the family to build a plan for the funeral and a plan for the burial. They are in charge of filling out the paper, which includes the death certificate and obituary notices. Then an embalmer or mortuary science technician would make sure to preserve the body where they would replace the blood of the deceased with a mixture that will help protect them. There are also funeral attendants that help to place the casket before funeral services begin, organize flowers and lighting. They also help escort the family and all the other guests, closes the casket, and disassembling the service afterward. Funeral directors also help people to plan out their funeral and wishes ahead of time.
In this career for people that work in funeral homes would salaries are usually below $25,000 to $100,000, and the minimum education that one needs is a high school diploma. To be a mortician, they need a certification license. Starting this career, they start as a funeral attendant and would move up to a mortuary science and then an embalmer. After that, as you gain more knowledge and experience, you can become a funeral director, and finally, at the very top of this career status, you can become a funeral homeowner.
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| Byles Memorial Home in New London, Connecticut |
Part Two:
Pg 81
A theme that I saw in my reading that connected to my life was the importance of family. The bond that it creates is extraordinary and unforgettable. The profile that had the most significant impact that had a connection to me was sculptor Olga Ayala, 57, talks to her ex-husband, Efraim Ayala, 61, about her mother, Artist Ramona Cruz. In the profile, Olga's mother was strong and wonderful. Her mom taught her to draw, and they have a significant influence on each other. They created art together and supported her and to pursue her dreams to go into art. She carried her mother's memories with her through art and missed her very much. This profile has the most significant connection to me because when I was little, I spent much time in my youth with her, and she would teach her how to draw and write. I loved drawing and doodling with her. My grandma was very supportive and was always there for me and trying her best to help until she got sick and passed away. In my life, my grandma supported me no matter what I did and told me I should go after, but my parents weren't like that. I became very close to my grandma and created this bond that was full of support and love. I will always remember her and continue to draw and have fun with it and think about all the good times we had together. Now I continue to draw in my free time, and every time I do, it brings joy to me. I will never forget her because she had the most significant influence on my life and has made a difference and to keep going. I miss her very much.